I m Fine Doesn t Always Mean sheâ
I m fine might mean I need someone to listen. Recognize nonverbal indicators (e.g., forced grin, distant glance, tone shift) that may hint at a deeper tale. Ask What s on your mind? Can I help?
Thoughtful gifts are her weaknessÂ
You might give her slippers again or something more meaningful. Psst: we suggest the latter. Whether it's a book she's been wanting to read, event tickets she mentioned
She still wants you to â dateâ herÂ
Remember when you met her and tried all you could to win her over? She misses it! You may still wow each other as a married couple. Do something special for her, such as a date, supper.
She wants appreciation, not just compliments
Simply saying you look nice is fine, but really appreciating her efforts, large and little, is far more meaningful.Express gratitude for her assistance with supper, errands, or just being there.
She Needs Time for Herself
Everyone deserves time for self-care and the pursuit of their passion. Encouragement to pursue hobbies, socialize, or unwind demonstrates you understand her desire for self-fulfillment.
Sheâs not a mind reader
If your spouse has said something previously, you may need to better comprehend it. No one, including you, can read minds, so don't expect your spouse to intuitively understand your needs.
She mentally carries a lot
Managing job, family, and other obligations may be psychologically exhausting. You can ease that burden. How? By being aware of her unseen duties and supporting her with food shopping.